小龙女吴卓林:找爸爸不是为了钱,而是“需要答案”

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据台湾媒体报道,“小龙女”吴卓林在11月底宣布和大12岁的女友Andi已经完成登记结婚,她的人生进入新的阶段,也多了新的身分,但挥之不去的还是“成龙私生女&rdqu

据台湾媒体报道,“小龙女”吴卓林在11月底宣布和大12岁的女友Andi已经完成登记结婚,她的人生进入新的阶段,也多了新的身分,但挥之不去的还是“成龙私生女”这个标签,她坦言心中有好多不解,找爸爸不是为了钱,而是“需要答案”。

吴卓林在4月时曾因为在加拿大街头流浪寻爸引起关注,当时有些人猜测她是需要钱,但对她来说,有些心灵层面的事远比金钱重要。据香港媒体报导,当提到成龙,吴卓林的反应很淡然,她说对于成龙的认识程度可能跟大众一样,不同的是,从一出生,几乎全世界的人都知道她是成龙的“私生女”。

面对外界误会吴卓林寻父是为了钱,成龙确曾说过财产一半要留给老婆林凤娇和儿子房祖名,其余的要做慈善,丝毫没有提及吴卓林,但她不在乎地说:“It‘s really none of my business。”不管钱是要给谁还是要做慈善,吴卓林都觉得不关自己的事,她要的只是一个答案。

吴卓林坦言当时会主动出现找爸爸,是因为心里有太多迷茫、问题,这样的举动是一种求助,希望对方能帮忙探寻真相,可惜没有结果,如果有朝一日可以见到成龙,她说问对方:“我妈为什么会这样?你们有没有讨论过?我知道我还小,但我需要一个答案。”不过至今父女仍未碰面,而妈妈吴绮莉又因为从原生家庭留有阴影,状态也不佳,“家”不是避风港,反而成为她心理负担、失望的源头,她选择出走,还好这段期间以来女友Andi一直在身边。

选择公开出柜和Andi结婚,吴卓林的勇气让网友很佩服,她回忆幼儿园时曾有个女朋友,但那时候还不懂,到了小学六年级,当她发现身边女同学开始在讨论男生的时候,她才注意到好像女生对自己更有吸引力,不过过去也曾交过男朋友,但她说是为了投妈妈所好。

至于妈妈至今仍无法接受Andi,吴卓林说因为妈妈是比较传统的女性,一时之间比较难接受,两人传讯息时,妈妈提到Andi会以“你朋友”带过,对她来说一边是爱人,一边是妈妈,当然也会希望妈妈有天能接纳Andi,不过她不强求在短时间内能拉近她们的距离,“慢慢来啦!”

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